Not Randomly Assigned at Birth

To Lilly, A Medicine Company, who has a inaccurate commercial claiming our bodies were randomly assigned at birth.  We were NOT randomly assigned bodies at birth.  God designed us to be who we are before we were born.  We are not here by chance.  God gave us our bodies on purpose, for a purpose. 

Psalm 139 (New International Version)

You have searched me, Lord,
    and you know me.
You know when I sit and when I rise;
    you perceive my thoughts from afar.
You discern my going out and my lying down;
    you are familiar with all my ways.
Before a word is on my tongue
    you, Lord, know it completely.
You hem me in behind and before,
    and you lay your hand upon me.
Such knowledge is too wonderful for me,
    too lofty for me to attain.

Where can I go from your Spirit?
    Where can I flee from your presence?
If I go up to the heavens, you are there;
    if I make my bed in the depths, you are there.
If I rise on the wings of the dawn,
    if I settle on the far side of the sea,
10 even there your hand will guide me,
    your right hand will hold me fast.
11 If I say, “Surely the darkness will hide me
    and the light become night around me,”
12 even the darkness will not be dark to you;
    the night will shine like the day,
    for darkness is as light to you.

13 For you created my inmost being;
    you knit me together in my mother’s womb.
14 I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
    your works are wonderful,
    I know that full well.
15 My frame was not hidden from you
    when I was made in the secret place,
    when I was woven together in the depths of the earth.
16 Your eyes saw my unformed body;
    all the days ordained for me were written in your book
    before one of them came to be.
17 How precious to me are your thoughts,[a] God!
    How vast is the sum of them!
18 Were I to count them,
    they would outnumber the grains of sand—
    when I awake, I am still with you.

19 If only you, God, would slay the wicked!
    Away from me, you who are bloodthirsty!
20 They speak of you with evil intent;
    your adversaries misuse your name.
21 Do I not hate those who hate you, Lord,
    and abhor those who are in rebellion against you?
22 I have nothing but hatred for them;
    I count them my enemies.
23 Search me, God, and know my heart;
    test me and know my anxious thoughts.
24 See if there is any offensive way in me,
    and lead me in the way everlasting.

What is God Trying to Teach Me?!

Today, the springs on our garage door broke, incapacitating the garage door and opener.  Thank God that my car was not parked inside!  It wouldn’t be such a huge deal except that this is just another broken thing in a long line of breaking things!

First, my bathroom vanity lights went out.  We have yet to be able to figure out, without the help of an electrician at least, how to get those back on.  Then our front door light went out.  Apart from purchasing a new one, this fixture seems irrevocably broken. 

Next, the water softener began making very loud noises in the middle of the night.  Thankfully, that was replaced at no little expense. 

Next, the washing machine began sounding like a jet engine ready for take-off.  Yet another appliance to replace and more money out the door. 

My husband’s brother, who has Down Syndrome, put a plastic lid down our toilet causing it to plug and creating a plumbing issue. 

Then, our dishwasher, which we had actually just replaced under warranty due to the first one being a lemon, started leaking all over our carpet.  This less than a year old appliance had a seal that was broken.  Parts are on order with no ETA as to when that will get fixed.  There seems to be a parts shortage currently.  Something about a chip…

And now the garage door. 

My mom asked me what I thought God was trying to teach me. 

I replied, “Perhaps He wants me to learn how to be an appliance repairman?” 

It reminds me of a joke I heard Patsy Clairmont make once.  She said, “When Jesus said in this world you will have trouble, He wasn’t kidding.” 

I guess in the grand scheme of things, these many issues are not all that bad.  Events in my life could be a lot worse!  Being able to come up for air every now and again might be nice though, especially after the year that was 2020! 

What is God trying to teach me?  It’s not a hard lesson.  It’s something I know already and just need to be reminded of.  I need to turn my eyes on Him.  Look full into His face.  Then these crazy material issues “will grow strangely dim, in the light of His glory and grace” (Lemmel, 1922)! 

Oh, and maybe I should bookmark a few good DIY appliance repair websites. 


Lemmel, H. H. (1922).  Turn your eyes upon Jesus.

Law Boxes or Faith

Do you live in law boxes or in relationship with Christ? There is a huge difference. Once represents dead faith. The other represents life and freedom.

Let me explain. Many believers claim to have faith in Christ, yet they keep trying to go back to law to earn favor from God. Their focal point becomes doing things that give the appearance of being good. Life becomes a list of do’s and don’ts…rules upon rules. The more rules you follow, the more holy you become. Self-righteousness becomes the modus operandi for being right before God. Setting your hope on the flesh in this manner leads to death (cf. Romans 7, 8; Galatians 2:15-21).

The opposite is true when you put your faith in Christ, truly in Christ alone. When your focal point is Christ, the Holy Spirit does the work to grow and change you. The closer you grow to Christ, the more holy you become. God does the work to make you righteous. We are given life and peace…grace upon grace. If the Spirit of God dwells in you, you belong to Christ and are conferred His righteousness (cf. Romans 7, 8; Galatians 2:15-21).

One way is self-righteousness. The other is Christ’s righteousness. One way is living in law boxes. The other way is living in freedom. One way is death. The other is life.

Do you want to live in a box or in the freedom that comes in Christ? True holiness comes from grace not law keeping. Live a life with your faith in your own self-righteousness is a losing battle. You will never get there. The only thing you will become is really good at being a Pharisee.

Get out of your law boxes and live by faith in Christ. To live is Christ.

Acknowledgement: I’d like to thank Jesse Caro from United Baptist Church in part for inspiring these thoughts because of his faithful preaching of God’s Word!

Chili’s Bar & Grill: The Anti-American Place

After waiting in our car for 15 minutes for a text from the restaurant saying our table was ready, our bare-faced family traipsed into the hostess station.  We were greeted–not sure if it was with a smile because everyone is masked–and led to our table.  We were given a plastic card with “specials” on it and told to use a code to view the full menu.  We asked to be able to view real menus instead.  As menus were brought to us while we are seated at a table, we were asked if we needed masks. 

“No,” my husband said.  “It that a problem?”

The man said that it was indeed a problem, and he was more than happy to get us masks unless we had exemptions.  At this point, the entire restaurant is now looking at us.  The man is relishing the attention because it is obvious he feels great pride in “confronting” bare-faced rebels to educate them about the governor’s mask mandate.  In fact, as we leave the restaurant (we CANNOT give our business to anti-American places), he brags about the governor’s mandate and how he is following it.

I must tell you.  One of the people I am with is hearing impaired.  He can hear within the box of speech but must be able to see your lips to fully process what you are saying.  When people wear masks, he has trouble communicating.

Is that anyone’s business? 


However, government mask mandates have made it so that now it is everyone’s business.  In order to communicate with my own loved one freely in public without having to tell him something five times before finally pulling down a mask to enable him to understand me, I must now broadcast to everyone within hearing distance that he has a disability, or I will be forced to wear a mask.  This is anti-American. 

Americans have spent so much time fighting for the rights of the disabled.  For what?  Do all the advances that have been made just go out the window?  Apparently. Everything that has been accomplished has been set back decades by the medical tyranny of governors that has become the “new normal” of today.  This is unconstitutional. This is anti-American. 

So Chili’s Grill & Bar at 9886 Old US-20, Rossford, Ohio, congratulations!  You are officially an anti-American restaurant who does not really care about your customers…at least not those with a disability!  What part of “no mask, don’t ask” don’t you understand?  Congratulations on the business you have lost because you were willing to either force us to acknowledge my son’s disability to a restaurant full of strangers or leave the premises.

Warning to Consumers:  If you go to Chili’s Grill & Bar in Rossford, Ohio, and you have a disability, you will be made to acknowledge it to a restaurant full of strangers or be discriminated against and asked to leave the building!

But God

I was dead.

I was hardened.

I was blind.

I was incapable of seeking God.

I was a son of disobedience.

I was by nature an object of God’s wrath.

I was separated from God.

I was unable to please God in any manner, no matter what I did.


Rich in mercy

Because of His great love


By His grace

Not because of anything I had done

As a gift

For His Work

According to His purpose.

Now, I am ALIVE!

A Tale of Two Families

Nearly a year ago, entire people groups throughout the world experienced their governments telling them they could not leave their homes except for essentials.  Almost immediately, some saw that this was a huge power grab and began to fight back.  Others cowered in fear.  Welcome to the tale of two such families in the United States.

Initially, no one knew what to expect when the panic ensued.  Both the Gratis family and the Aislar family thought the government’s information about a deadly pandemic to be forthright and honest.  However, when “two weeks to stop the spread” did not pan out and everyone was being bombarded with fear narratives that did not seem logical or grounded in reality, the Gratis family began to question things.  Never before had the country experienced such intense government restriction.  The numbers did not seem to add up.  The information being disseminated kept changing, and it was discovered that what was used to cause panic in everyone were just projections and not reality.  This did not make sense.  Members of the Gratis family began extensive research into what was happening, and what they found revealed nothing but lies, smoke and mirrors, being regurgitated by the government.  It was a well-scripted narrative.

The Aislar family hung on every word the government said.  They hunkered down in their home.  Certainly, if the government was telling them how horrific it was going to be, it must be true!  There was no reason to question the government.  After all, the government is there to protect you, right?

The entire country was told not to celebrate Easter.  Although spring was coming, they were told to stay inside.  They were told to restrict their movement.  Businesses were shuddered.  Everything was shut down.  Life as they knew it ended.  They were told, and even often forbid, to see treasured loved ones.  They were warned not to be the one who caused grandma to die from a deadly virus.  Moving into the summer, they were told not to engage in athletic events, not to celebrate Independence day, and not to have weddings or graduation parties.  More restrictions followed as time passed.  No family gatherings, no holiday celebrations, no church.  Totalitarian reigns became the norm for many governors as entire state legislatures became impotent. 

The Aislar family bought it all hook, line, and sinker.  They completely avoided any person that was not in their immediate family.  They even avoided seeing their children, grandchildren, and other loved ones.  They avoided public places.  They isolated as they were told.  Family ties appeared all but severed.  Major life events were avoided or ignored.  After all, Grandma did not want to die of the deadly virus. 

The Gratis family was quite the opposite.  Grandma and Grandpa spent time with their children and grandchildren.  Easter, Thanksgiving, and Christmas were celebrated in grand style.  Not a life moment was missed.  In fact, because everything had been cut off and shut down, the family was able to spend a lot more quality time together in person.  Relationships grew and strengthened.  Memories were made.  Life was lived.  Not a moment was missed.

Here we are more than a year later.  Both the Aislar family and the Gratis family have not lost a single loved one to the virus.  Sure, most of them have had the virus, but all of them have recovered.  The virus did not turn out to be the monster the government had made of it and continues to make of it.  The only difference is that the Aislar family lost an entire year of their life while the Gratis family did not.  The Aislar family missed major life celebrations and events.   They missed spending time with their loved ones.  They missed seeing the smiles and experiencing the hugs of grandchildren.  An entire year of family…vanished. 

The Gratis family did not miss a thing. 

I ask the Aislar family, was it worth it?  Was it worth not living your life to continue to have life?  Was it worth living in fear and isolating yourself to miss out on an entire year of your family’s lives?  Yes, you may say, “But I’m still alive.”  So is the Gratis family, and they actually continued to live their lives.  They continued to make memories and spend time in the presence of their loved ones.  They continued to live, love, and laugh with their children and grandchildren in person and close enough for hugs. 

Many people have been played the fool by their government.  Many people have lost an entire year of living…I mean really living…because they bought into the fear.  Looking back over the past year, knowing what we know now, was it worth it? 

Isolated Panic

Just over a year ago, the lockdowns around the world began.  Just over a year ago, fear became the new normal.  Just over a year ago, a state of isolated panic ensued.  Isolated panic is just about the worst kind of panic one can experience.  In isolated panic, there are no voices of reason to combat the irrational thoughts inside one’s head. 

The forced isolation was not an accident.  There is no better way to train people’s brains to live in fear than to keep people from communicating with one another.  When there are no dissenting voices to be heard, there is only compliance.  As we see now, the lockdowns were just the start of a progressive cycle of shutting off voices of reason.   

The only way to combat the narrative is to be a voice of reason.  Come out of your isolation and speak out.  Has what you fear would happen to you happened?  Are you still alive to read these words?  Has the devastation been as vast as they claimed it would be?  Was it worth not being around your family for a year to be in the exact same place living in the exact same fear of something that either never happened or happened and you survived it? 

Stop giving in to the fear.  Fear is a liar.  Fear is used to control you, and it has worked marvelously. 

Come out of your isolated panic and live.      

The Lie Device

“I know the mask doesn’t work, but I will wear it anyway because I care.  I want others to feel safe.  I am trying to be nice.”

Is it caring to lie?

Is it right to give others a false sense of security?

Is it nice to propagate fear? 

I’m sorry.  I don’t believe the hype that wearing a mask is caring about others.  If you have done your research, and you understand what the real science says, it is nothing more than being completely and utterly deceitful to claim to wear a mask for others.  I’m not buying it. 

You are doing it for yourself. 

You are doing it because you are afraid of what others are going to think about you if you don’t wear a mask.

You are doing it because you are afraid of getting into trouble for not being compliant. 

You are wearing it for you because you care about what other people think of you.

It’s easier to hide under the mask. 

Quit lying to others.  Take the lie device off and speak the truth with your bare face. 

Masks: The Gateway

For those of you who think that it’s the considerate thing to do to wear a mask so you can protect other people’s health, I have a thought. 

I’m pretty stressed out most of the time because I have to work to support my family.  The CDC recommends that it is important to reduce stress to reduce the risk of serious physical and emotional problems.  In fact, I think my high blood pressure is related to my work stress, so if I continue on working, I might just have a heart attack, stroke, or even keel over dead.  So I think the best thing for me to do is to stop working.  However, in order for me to be able to do that, I need all these wonderful people who are willing to wear a mask out of consideration for the health of others, to take my health in this circumstance into consideration.  Therefore, I am asking that in consideration of my health—possibly even my life—that you forward a portion of your income to me.  Cash and checks are both acceptable.  After all, it’s the considerate thing to do!  Better yet, maybe the government should just mandate that those who work should send their money to those who can’t because it might be bad for their health and cause spikes in hospitalization or even deaths.  That way everyone is treated equally.  I mean, one size really does fit all, right?

Wait, you say?  That’s socialism?  Now you get why so many of us are concerned that mask mandates are the gateway to make socialism the new normal.  If they can get you to accept something small…social distancing; lockdowns to flatten the curve; wear a mask for four to six weeks to slow the spread; wear a mask while walking to your table in a restaurant but not while you’re at the table; wear a mask indefinitely because nothing is safe from the monster virus; here, take this questionable vaccination that did not go through lengthy testing processes for a virus that 99% of people survive; in order to socialize, you must have a vaccination card…then they know they got you hook, line, and sinker for the bigger things.   

Out of consideration for others, why don’t you not wear a mask to show them that you will not accept socialism?   They are watching to see how far you’ll go…with how much you will comply.  Now is the time to put the mask down before we lose everything!